I work really hard at some endeavor and really excel at it. For example, I used to practice an instrument 4 hours a day. However, once I'm good at something, I don't want anything to do with it any more. How do I get back into the things I used to enjoy or find something that will be satisfying forever?
How do I get satisfaction from life?
Well, try finding a relationship and take time to make it very personal and get close. Feels good to care for one another. Try to get close to your parents it always feels good to be loved. Find a job you LOVE and get good at it and you ll earn money for your personal wants and you can have fun with your hobbies. Theres lots of things to do.
Reply:I had that for so long. Everything started to bore me: people, hobbies, work...
You just need something new and challenging. Put yourself into situations where you are out ofyourcomfort zone- where you know no-one or don't know how to do anything. Meet ne people, start new hobbies, or do what you're good at with a new twist. For example, I switched from rock guitar to classical. Got a new, completely different job. Started college an hour away from where I live. Just challenge yourself. Or try at least one new thing every day- it could be anything...
And please don't take other peoples advice and aim for a relationship- you won't be happy in a relationship until you are happy by yourself, as you are. Leave starting a relationship for when you are happy in your own skin and feel like you are satisfied with life.
Or, if all else fails, have you ever read a book called the dice man!?
Reply:u just named about every person in the entire world. the humans species in general are never satisfied with what they have they always want more. it's in our nature.
the difference between ppl who keep doing what they do (for example great pianists, athletes) are they they keep at it even if it isnt satisfying anymore. (this is true for most ppl - there are exceptions i'm sure)
i'm sure things get soo boring after repetitively doing the same thing over and over.. but if u can get over that phase.. where ur heart leans towards quitting or doing something else. then u've survived another day.. and u must repeat the process the next day..
best bet.. live ur life day to day like there is no tmrw. have fun with ur mortal life while u can.
Reply:One- Dont spend ridiculously large amounts of time on something. If you play an instrument, play it like 1 hour a day so that you pace yourself and it doesnt get boring. Also, find something that you like to do but will also need to use. For your instrument for example, see if you can get a small gig at a cafe or something just for fun. You can even get paid for it!
Reply:Become a teacher and teach someone who wants to get better and maybe their wanting to be better might rub off on you.
Not wanting to be better is not better than being better and being better is better than not wanting to be better. You better believe it because when you do you will be better.
Reply:Share your tallent. What you do easily and well could help others to enjoy life too. In helping them you will understand more about tyhem and find that in what your technical ability has triumphed, you sociable intellect would still find to be challanging.
Reply:Teach that instrument to others and watch them grow. Teaching means that your life is never the same from day to day, and you will always know that you are helping someone.
Reply:Try something new once and a while. A new sport, visit a new place, get an interesting haircut. Get a pet. Experiment. Anything, really. Good luck. :)
Reply:Try playing with people better than you.
Reply:Have sex as much as possible.
Reply:travel
Reply:getting married makes u happy 4ever i guess . . .
Reply:find something worth living for
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Reply:you get bored easily, so you oughta keep looking for new things to do...
Reply:just keep believing in yourself and follow your heart someday you will find a way
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