Why does women have a satisfaction when they keep the baby away from the father?

We are talking about women that are dumped by their x. Then the only way to get revenge is to hold back the baby.

Why does women have a satisfaction when they keep the baby away from the father?
ITS AGAINST THE LAW FOR ONE IN SOME STATES AND THEY THINK BY DOING THIS THEY WILL GET THE MAN BACK ON THEIR TERMS . THE CHILD IS NOT A PAWN ,, WOMEN WHO DO THIS SHOULD NEVER HAVE HAD A CHILD AND SHOULD NEVER BE ALLOWED TO HAVE ANYMORE , THEY'RE TOO CHILDISH . THIS ONLY HURTS THE CHILD .
Reply:That is a horrible thing to do. The only way I would hold my baby away from his/her father is if the father is a danger to the baby. Women who play those game do not understand that the one they are hurting is the baby, along with the father. It is a childish game.





If the man is a good father, all he has to do is get a court order for visitation.
Reply:well if you know a woman like that then she is pretty crazy. Not all women do that if i had i child i wouldn't do that to the father.
Reply:maternal instincs, most likely.
Reply:I think its disgusting the baby was made by two , whether or not u were dumped is not the childs fault . The only reason a father should be kept away from a child is if they are a danger to the child and no other reason.Besides a break from baby will do u good now and then if you are not together with the dad, i am with my childrens dad and sometimes when he gets home in the evening i go out for an hour. so think carefully the child is not a bartering tool.
Reply:For the longest time my son wasn't allowed at his father's house but he was allowed to come to my house and visit all he wanted, but my son had a lot of problems with his kidneys and was on medicine for a long time. Well the thing was is that he was/is a pot smoker and got very forgetful while in the high stages...it wasn't until i got close to his girlfriend that I started letting my son go over there..I also made him promise that he wouldn't smoke around the baby..now my son sees his dad every other weekend and we have split holidays...Sometimes girls don't feel safe sending their baby with the ex's..
Reply:I have satisfaction with when I keep my kids away from they dad, and I don't mean that they cannot see him, I just don't trust him with changing diapers and that. Men can just sometimes be stupid. My youngest who is now 6 months old got broke by his dad. And it was an accident. So yeah I keep my kids especially when they are infants, away from they dad in that way. He's a sweet guy and would never hurt them. He just doesn't think.





But like my husbands ex I wouldn't keep my kids totally away from him like she does. I see the hurt that it causes them. And she has her 2 yr old calling someone who probably won't even be there in the end daddy. Some woman can be stupid and cruel to their kids in that way. A child needs both of their parents. Bottom line unless they are being abused than they should be placed in a better situation.
Reply:WHO DO WANT TO GET REVENGE ON THE EX OR THE BABY THINK ABOUT IT
Reply:The courts ordered for my ex not to have any contact with me or our children. Because of some domestic violence problems we had. I would never keep them from him for no good reason. Women that do that know that's the one thing that will hurt the father worse than anything. But I think it hurts the children more and they will resent their mother for it later.
Reply:It is case with mothers mental maturity,some mothers after getting baby think/concentrate only in the child's duties, and neglect how fathers love and care about their own blood, Child.This situation occures when a women also earning as much as man(father) or lead more professional busy life.Some time mothers family members influence also occur to do such wicked things.They think ,after all that child is produced by them,also in real sense mother engage in an active role than father, for an example, cleaning and feeding the baby.


This idiot , cruel nature will some time caused to deviate the love and affection of father from the nest, some fathers even find another lady lover, making the poor baby child's life miserable in coming years, under some one else care.


SO please , every mother should make use of the fathers love and energy positively, if they really love their child's future.
Reply:Odd question. Here in India mothers would like the fathers to take a more active part in parenting